7 Practices of an Enduring Small Group Pastor

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Want to stay the course in ministry? Want to do more than survive?

I think most of us begin ministry with a sense of purpose, a desire to make a difference; an aspiration to inspire others to follow Jesus.

In 2000 I bought a Passion CD. I was captivated (and still am) by a few lines from one of the songs.

"Give me one pure and holy passion. Give me one magnificent obsession. Give me one glorious ambition for my life. To know and follow hard after you."

Give me one pure and holy passion. Give me one magnificent obsession. Give me one glorious ambition for my life. To know and follow hard after you. —Mark Altrogge Click To Tweet

Sure, there are some who simply see ministry as a job or the obvious career choice.

But, I think most of us begin with a dream or a vision for what our ministry really could be. Not a job. Not a dull going through the motions. Certainly not.

But staying the course in ministry, experiencing more than survival in ministry, will require something of all of us.

Do you want more than survival?

I believe sustained pursuit of a thriving ministry requires a few non-negotiable, irreplaceable practices.

See also, 8 Habits of a Life-Changing Small Group Leader and 5 Habits I'd Look for If I Was Hiring a Small Group Pastor.

7 Practices of an Enduring Small Group Pastor

1. A daily time with God.

There are a number of ways this can happen and every small group pastor will have their own favorite, most satisfying path. But whether it is reading and meditating on a passage of scripture, listening to a worship playlist, journaling, or reading from a devotional book (or some other method), a daily time with God is an essential practice.

2. A small group of true friends.

Not acquaintances and not just a small group that meets from 7 to 9 every other Thursday. It goes without saying that you need a small group. What you need though are friends. The kind with whom you can truly share life. The kind with whom you can laugh long and hard. The kind with whom you can cry.

3. A small group of "fellow soldiers" on mission.

Building a thriving small group ministry is never a single campaign effort. It happens over years. If you want to endure, you must have a small group of fellow soldiers who share your passion for community and the mission of making Christ followers. Paul called Epaphroditus his fellow soldier in Philippians 2:25.

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4. A steady intake of new ideas.

If you want to endure, you must be a learner. Read widely across multiple fields (Patrick Lencioni, Jim Collins, Steven Johnson, Malcolm Gladwell, etc.). Listen to a variety of podcasts (Catalyst, TED Radio Hour, Andy Stanley Leadership Podcast, Freakonomics Radio, etc.). Attend conferences (Leadership Summit, Catalyst, etc.).  Watch Leadership Network's online conferences (The Nines, etc.).

5. A balanced life.

Work-life balance can be difficult to cultivate but it is an essential ingredient for an enduring small group pastor. It doesn't really matter what other activities and interests you cultivate as long as you have a life outside of work. Gardening, cooking, blogging, hunting, traveling, etc.

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6. A healthy diet.

This may go against every taste bud, but if you want to endure and participate for the long run you will need to develop a healthy diet. That doesn't mean you never have pizza or barbecue. It means you are eating the foods that contribute to a healthy body.

7. An exercise routine.

This can be as simple as a 30 minute daily walk or as strenuous as a crossfit session (or anything in between). It really doesn't matter. The key is that your body needs regular activity and without it you can't expect to endure for long.

How is it going for you?

When I'm struggling to stay the course, I almost always discover that one or more of these 7 practices are weak or missing in action.

Is there a practice that is weak or missing for you? Today is the day to begin again and now is the moment to decide.

Correcting your life trajectory becomes more difficult every minute of every day. That's why today is the day to decide and right now is the moment to begin to move in the right direction.

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2 Comments

  1. mo on September 30, 2014 at 7:40 am

    I think you should add a ‘soul check-in’ to your list. By that I mean allowing the Transformation Center in yours or travel to one that can speak into your life. We can ‘do’ a bunch of stuff but it is ‘head decisions’. I have seen in my 40+ years of ministry that if we are not willing to submit to a trained team joining with Holy Spirit for the deep root issues in our life we will never live in the freedom of Kingdom now. Otherwise we are in a lie of ‘lone ranger’ thinking or are on our own island running our own worlds when in fact we are called to be a body, knit together with other believers. If one part suffers we all suffer and become open to the attack of the enemy. We need to close the ranks as fast as possible, to hear Holy Spirit as purely as possible, when to turn to the left or right, putting on the whole armor, not yielding to the attack….getting healing in the ‘pure river’…as ‘the times-they are a-changin”.



  2. markchowell on September 30, 2014 at 9:52 am

    Thanks for jumping in here, Mo. I hear you. And I think for some of us that would be an added item on the list. For me (and I believe it should be for all of us), that essential ingredient has always been part of my circle of true friends and fellow soldiers.

    mark