The Titanic, Your Lobby and Lifeboat 14

Storytelling is one of the most important aspects of building a dynamic small group culture.  Telling the right stories, choosing the right metaphors, makes all the difference in communication.  Buy-in is almost always a direct result of the spot-on selection of the stories you tell. One of the stories I tell all the time when…

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Group Life 2008

I’m excited!  This year (after attending for years) I get to be part of Willow’s Group Life 2008 conference!  That is very exciting for me.  I’ll be doing my workshop Getting to There: Building a Dynamic Small Group Ministry.  Lots of fun to do it.  Always fun to see everybody. Sidenote: My breakout is on…

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If I Was Starting Today: Part 6

(This is part 6 of a 7 part series.  You can read part 1 right here) If I knew then what I know now…I’d work harder to make heroes out of the right people.  That is, I’d carefully select the stories I’d make a big deal out of…and I’d make a big deal out of…

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Community Building

How hard is it to build community?   What’s involved?  Is it just a matter of using a strategy, unrolling a game plan?  Uhhhhh…no.  Peter Block says it in a very elegant way: “What makes community building so complex is that it occurs in an infinite number of small steps, sometimes in quiet moments that we…

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If I Was Starting Today: Part 5

(This is part 5 of a 7 part series.  You can read part 1 right here) If I knew then what I know now, I’d work smarter to get the right people in the right seats…on the bus. What do I mean?   One of the most important principles from Jim Collins’ Good to Great is…

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If I Was Starting Today: Part 4

(This is part 4 of a 7 part series.  You can read part 1 right here) If I knew then what I know now…I’d work harder to develop a sequence of spiritual next steps and I’d narrow our focus to only include the most important elements to growth. “Narrowing the focus” and “thinking steps, not…

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If I Was Starting Today: Part 3

(This is part 3 of a 7 part series.  You can read part 1 right here) If I knew then what I know now…I’d have a different way of looking at a lot of things!  One thing I would definitely look at differently would be the way I defined success.   How so?  Well, for starters…

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If I Was Starting Today: Part 2

(This is part 2 of a 7 part series.  If you missed part 1, you can read it right here) If I knew then what I know now…I would have worked harder to be crystal clear on who my real customer was and designed my strategy to fit them.  I realize that to some of…

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