Quotebook: Trade-Offs and the Pursuit of More

Looking for a way to have it all?  Whether we’re talking about ministry or life, many people look for opportunities to have it all or to do everything.  Wise leaders, essentialists, understand that “strategy is about making trade-offs.”  See also, Could This Strategic Misstep Be Limiting Your Ministry Impact? I loved these lines from Essentialism:…

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Take a Look at Your Coaching Structure Through 3 Lenses

In a recent conversation with a group of church leaders I pointed out three aspects of small group coaching structures that provide helpful lenses through which to evaluate.  There really is very little mystery to building an effective coaching structure.  It requires recruiting the right people, to do the right things, with the right people.…

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Four Decisions Wise Small Group Pastors Make Once

You know the decisions you have to make every time you turn around?  The decisions that seem almost forced upon you in moments of weakness?  The decisions that catch you off guard and lead you to agree to things you don’t really want to do? I think all of us could make a quick list…

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6 Essential Questions about Making Disciples and Small Group Ministry

Wrestling with questions like, “Are we really making disciples?” Or maybe, “Where are the mature disciples?” I want to suggest that while those are valid questions, they might not be the most helpful questions. In addition, asking the right questions is essential if you want to discover discover the best solutions. W. Edwards Deming said,…

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Win a Life on Mission Church-Wide Campaign – an $1160 Value!

This Contest is Closed!  Watch for another new contest soon! I’m excited about this contest! If you’re dreaming of helping your whole church join the mission, you probably already know about the Life on Mission church-wide campaign.  I reviewed it back in July and it’s just the ticket if you hope to engage everyone in…

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Rick Warren on Building Great Relationships

If you didn’t catch Rick Warren’s message this last weekend at Saddleback, you missed a truly amazing experience.  In a classic example of how to cast vision for the importance of small groups, Rick invited his own small group of 13 years to join him onstage and help deliver the message. There are many, many…

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What Do Small Group Leaders Need to Know How to Do?

Have you ever spent much time thinking about the set of things small group leaders need to know how to do?  I’ve probably talked through this hundreds of times over the years but I don’t think I’ve ever really made an actual list. I’ve written a series of skill training articles that describe individual things…

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Could This Strategic Misstep Be Limiting Your Ministry Impact?

I’ve written about this strategic misstep in the past, but have never identified it quite this way.  I’ve been reading Greg McKeown’s Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less and caught an idea, a way of pointing to what I believe is one of the most serious missteps in many of our ministries.  See also, Growth’s Counterintuitive First…

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