Are You “Brutally Honest” about Your Small Group Ministry?

How honest are you about your own small group ministry? You know. About how things are going. Really. Are you brutally honest? In his best-selling book Good to Great, Jim Collins introduced the “discipline to confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.” “You absolutely cannot make a series of…

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How to Manage the 5 Tensions of Connection

  Connection between people is a little bit of mystery smack dab in the middle of a lot of predictability. It is mostly about managing the 5 tensions of connection. The 5 tensions are driven by things that seem true and good to everyone except unconnected people. Here’s what I mean: Connection is easiest when…

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Jim Stockdale on Confronting the Brutal Facts

You must never confuse faith that you will prevail in the end—which you can never afford to lose—with the discipline to confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be. —Jim Stockdale Share on X To see the rest of my quotebook, click here. Image by David Jones

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How To Build an Annual GroupLife Calendar – 2016

How does calendar planning happen in your world? Maybe the question should be, “does calendar planning happen in your world? Let me tell you, whether you are naturally a planner or you will only plan when it’s done for you or you’re forced, calendar planning is a key to small group ministry effectiveness. Whether you…

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Want to Help Me Test This: New to Small Group Ministry?

A few weeks ago I launched Small Group Ministry Basic Training. It’s FREE. It’s designed to help people who are new to small group ministry (or perhaps need to look at it from a fresh point-of-view). I’d love your feedback. Want to help me test a new program? Here’s the sign-up form: Subscribe to our…

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2016 Summer Reading List

2016 Summer Reading List Every summer I create a list of books I think you should read.  Sometimes the books I include are strictly about small group ministry, discipleship or spiritual formation.  Most times, the books I include may seem pretty far afield (innovation, design, leadership, or strategy).  You’ll just have to trust me.  I wouldn’t include…

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Add “A Fellowship of Differents” to Your Reading List

I left the re:group conference with a list of books to add to my reading stack. First up? A Fellowship of Differents: Showing the World God’s Design for Life Together by Scot McKnight. If you’re not familiar with McKnight, he is currently Professor of New Testament at Northern Baptist Theological Seminary in Lombard, IL, and the author…

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